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Black People, Please Stop Celebrating Things Which Are Supposed To Be Normal To Us? Miss Universe?

It saddens me a little, the things that black people are forced to celebrate. A black South African woman with her own hair goes on a beauty pageant and wins it, and we are all celebrating, not the win itself, ...

The Spiritual Power Behind My Husband’s Stick

This morning I woke up to screenshots and comments on my Facebook about my King using his “walking stick” as they call it for juju purposes. I have to say, I find it flattering that women, so-called modern black women ...

Dear Black People, Stop Crying When You Win ‘First Black Awards’ From White People, It’s Embarrassing

So Naomi Campbell became the first black woman to win the Fashion Icon Prize, whatever that is. Apparently, it is a big award in the Western Fashion Industry and no black person has ever won it, so Naomi scooping this was history ...

Thank You, LipStick Alley, For Giving My Husband The King The Best Birthday Present Ever

This post is long, but it is a long testimony. The bible says we should be thankful in all situations, last Sabbath I wrote about thanksgiving. There is a reason why God commands the spirit of joy and thanksgiving even when things ...

My Tears Of Thanksgiving

I do not normally write on a Sabbath. It is the only day I take a break from my pen. But today, I am in the thanksgiving spirit. 5 years ago when I was going through a divorce, I was ...

Behold, The Book My Ex-Husband Tried To Destroy

About 7 years ago, when I was a married mother of three, I found myself obsessing about a certain woman. Well, I thought I was obsessing, but I wasn’t, it was just that the feeling was strange. I dreamt about ...

Dear Black American Women From Lipstick Alley, My Husband Does Not Use Juju To Attract Women

Last night one of my very faithful readers from the USA posted a comment and a link of a popular forum that is currently discussing my journey of being a plural wife to my King husband. She is one reader ...

Jean, Is Your Husband Turning Into A Walter Masocha? Are You Starting A Church?

This has been coming up a lot from my readers, especially my Zimbabwean readers. They seem to be under the impression that my King is slowly turning into a type of Walter Masocha, and that our lifestyle and our family ...

My Husband’s Second Wife Shaved Off My Eyebrows, But We Made Up And She Updated Her Blog

So yesterday was really a crazy day, but it turned out to be the most productive day I have been through since my plural wife journey. I spent quality time with my King away from the children, and he told me that ...

Outnumbered Part 2: How The King Manages His Emotional Crying Wives

So Hagar (my husband’s potential 3rd wife) told my husband that she wanted to take me out for dinner, so we could talk things through and get to know each other. I said okay, and we went out Friday night. ...