Jean Gasho

Dear Mary-Tamar, I Want A Solution To Being A Concubine

“Sister, I’m reaching out from the American diaspora. I originally found you because I wanted to find a solution to being a concubine. I stayed to read your opinions on the issues facing black. Keep writing my sister!” I recently ...

Blended Family Series: I Taught My Children To Hate Their Biological “Father”

Firstly, I am not a Christian, I do not live my life according to Christian doctrines or principles, I am an Israelite, so I live according to Hebrew culture and principles and follow the Hebrew God. So no one can ...

Blended Family Series: Psycho Ex-husband Keeps Stalking Me

I love being a blended family. I’ve learnt unconditional love at its highest. I’ve learnt that water is purer than blood. I’ve learnt that a man can be a sperm donor, but a father is the one who loves and ...

Every Black Person Should Sympathize With Hushpuppi: The Black Gucci Syndrome

I had never heard of Nigerian Social media sensation Hushpuppi until a few days ago when he was featured in the news for being arrested for a $350 million global cyber scam in Dubai. For me, looking at his flamboyant ...

How Being A God-Damned Christian Ruined My Life, Part 1

When I became a born again Christian in 2008, I became those holier than thou Christians who would go for a day with the goal of not “sinning”. I strived on living a holy perfect life according to the Christian ...

Where Is Your Husband’s Second Wife, Shulamite, My Readers Ask Me, As Dr Umar Johnson Copies My King In Quest For Polygamy

Yesterday a number of my readers asked me, Mary-Tamar, where is the Shulamite, your husband’s second wife? It seems that is all my readers, especially on Facebook, wants to know, they have been asking me this question for months. They ...

Blended Family Series: Why My Children Call My Husband By His First Name

I’ve done a number of articles on Blended Families. Recently one of my Facebook followers asked me why my children do not call my husband Daddy after I had posted some pictures on Father’s Day. On Father’s Day, Nino blessed the children ...

Why Zimbabwean Men Should Not Pay Lobola For Non Virgins

A few weeks ago there was a misunderstanding on Zimbabwe social media about lobola, the women thought that the Government had ruled that lobola had been banished, prompting a wild panic among the Zimbabwean women. The women of Zimbabwe were ...

Why I Am Sad That Lockdown Is Coming To An End

Lock-down or self isolation caused a lot of people to commit suicide, the latest being playboy multi-millionaire Steve Being who killed himself yesterday after becoming depressed because of self-isolation. The global lock-down was a massive sudden change to our lifestyles, ...

Jesus’ Colour Matters, But Only To The Lost Tribes Of Israel

A leading figure in the Black Lives Matter movement Shaun King wants the United States, and most of the western world, to take down the statues of a white Jesus Christ for the purpose of racial justice. His argument is ...