Quick input from a SD perspective since you asked.
Best way to find a sugar daddy – be honest in your profile, have recent photos, know your boundaries BEFORE you start talking to anyone.
We can smell desperation and lies from a mile away. If your profile says “just looking for a mentor” but your messages are immediately asking for money, we’re out.
I use SecretBenefits mainly. My current SB is 25, grad student, we’ve been together 9 months. $3K/month plus I help with tuition. We meet 2-3x weekly.
This works because we’re BOTH clear about expectations. No games, no drama, mutual respect.
Also ALWAYS meet in public first. I don’t care how nice a guy seems, protect yourself