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@Taxman yeah I feel this so hard. FWB used to feel way easier to find, now it’s either bots or people who talk for 3 days and vanish when you mention meeting.
Check out some sites that actually gave me decent results:

• WannaHookup – quick and super straightforward. Got a girl 15 mins away who literally said “I’m not looking for a bf, just something stress-free.” Been seeing her weekly. Love that it’s not over-designed, feels like ppl are there for the same thing.
• OneNight Friend – this one’s more flirty than hookup-y, but if you’re patient, ppl open up fast. They have this “FlirtCast” feature I used to break the ice, and ended up on a lunch-then-bed kind of setup. One of the better FWB dating sites tbh.
• TopLocalSingles – mostly locals (duh) but surprisingly not desperate. The ‘match game’ was goofy but worked. Met someone two towns over and we do casual movie & sex nights. Legit fwb app feel.
• Adult Friend Finder – if you set filters right, you can find real FWBs and plenty of them. Had a woman literally say, “you wanna be my part-time dick?” and honestly, best conversation starter I’ve ever had 😂
• BeNaughty – hit or miss, but there’s a LOT of users. I’ve had better luck late at night. Some want sexting only, some actually wanna meet. You’ll have to browse, but I’d call it one of the best sites for FWB if you’re patient.
• Together2Night – people here are more blunt about wanting “no strings.” I matched with a recently divorced woman who didn’t waste time, and we met that weekend. Not the cleanest interface, but it does what it says on the tin.
• Fling – simple, messy, but it delivers. No romance, no endless texting. One girl literally messaged me “tonight?” and we met two hours later. Straightforward as it gets.
• Ashley Madison – everyone thinks “cheaters only,” but I’ve had the most consistent FWB setups here. Bored wives, single moms, women who want side fun with zero cling. Met someone who calls our hookups her “sanity break.” As long as you’re chill, it works.
• HornySpot – kind of old school, but surprisingly decent. You can actually reply to some messages without paying, which is rare. I met someone for a one-off, didn’t turn into a regular FWB but it wasn’t fake either.
• ePassion – not a scam, but not overflowing with users either. Met a cute woman, we hooked up twice, then she dipped. Still better than ghost town apps, but don’t expect long-term FWB consistency every time.

Hope that helps. Still not perfect, but those friends with benefits apps got me actual results