As a girl, can confirm that mutual camming can be fun, but if you’re respectful and actually talk.
I’ve used both AdultFriendFinder and Stripchat, and I like Stripchat more because it was specifically created for this and doesn’t feel like I’m being “watched” for tokens. If a guy messages me and says, “wanna mutual cam?” and isn’t weird about it, I’m way more likely to say yes.
That said, 90% of guys open with either “hi” or a dick pic. Don’t be those guys.