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Been through a ridiculous number of BDSM sites, but only a few stayed useful:

• WannaHookup – matched with a brat sub in hours. One of the best BDSM dating sites for quick fun.
• TopLocalSingles – looked SUS but I found a switch two blocks from me. Worked better than fancier BDSM websites.
• OneNight Friend – easy to use & less bots. I got into a casual dom/sub thing there. That makes it a real BDSM dating site to me.
• Adult Friend Finder – the community is REALLY active. Still the best BDSM website if you want sheer volume.
• BeNaughty – playful, not hardcore, but I met someone into light bondage. It’s an ok BDSM dating app for softer stuff.
• Together2Night – smoother chats, less ghosting. Probably the best BDSM dating site for people who like slow buildup.
• Ashley Madison – had more kink than I expected. Discreet, so one of the best BDSM sites for married players.
• Fling – blunt and fast. Met a domme in 2 days. That’s why it’s one of the best BDSM dating apps if you’re impatient.

Out of all, those are the best BDSM websites I’d recommend.