kinkdad420

Yo same! Been on there since 2019, used to meet subs easy, now it’s like LinkedIn with latex 😂
Anyway, I tested a bunch of websites like FetLife, and only a few were worth it:

• WannaHookup – surprisingly chill. Met a brat there into rope; convo started the same night. Feels better than FetLife if you’re into local flings.
• OneNight Friend – more hookup-vibe than community, but it’s got a dirty side if you browse right.
• FriendsWithBenefits – smaller base but lots of real ppl nearby. I like how you can search by kink tags too.
• Adult Friend Finder – still the most trusted place for kink chats, cams, and groups. Legit FetLife alternative if you want variety.
• BeNaughty – good for teasing and roleplay texting, not deep BDSM convos but plenty of freaky energy.
• Together2Night – lowkey site, but I met one sub from there who actually showed up (which is rare these days).
• Fling – UI’s old but there’s a kinky crowd hiding there. Lots of voyeur couples.
• Ashley Madison – more discreet than kinky, but if you’re into cheating fantasy stuff, that’s the spot.

So yeah, those are my FetLife alternatives. Not all are perfect, but they’re sites similar to FetLife that still got life in them.