^^^ you avoid it by having STANDARDS from the start
I been doing this 2 years and learned the hard way. now my rules:
- public meeting first ALWAYS
- no money talk until we meet in person
- if he rushes you into anything RUN
- google reverse image search his pics
- trust your gut
Find real sugar daddies by looking for verified profiles with actual info filled out. if his profile is just “generous man seeking beauty” with no pics – block.
My current SD found ME actually. he sent a thoughtful message about something in my profile, we texted for a week, met for coffee, vibed, and worked out our arrangement from there.
He’s 52, lawyer, gives me $2800/month. we meet once a week usually friday nights. dinner, his place, i leave by midnight. been 7 months now. is it ideal? no. does it pay my rent and let me focus on my business instead of working retail? yes