What Are Some Working Sites Like FetLife This Year?

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  • #4657
    darkraven87darkraven87
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    So, FetLife’s cool for community stuff, but the hookups are dead lately. Feels like people just post memes and ghost 😒

    Anyone know sites like FetLife that actually work for meeting kink-friendly ppl, not just endless DMs that go nowhere?

    #4662
    kinkdad420
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    Yo same! Been on there since 2019, used to meet subs easy, now it’s like LinkedIn with latex 😂
    Anyway, I tested a bunch of websites like FetLife, and only a few were worth it:

    • WannaHookup – surprisingly chill. Met a brat there into rope; convo started the same night. Feels better than FetLife if you’re into local flings.
    • OneNight Friend – more hookup-vibe than community, but it’s got a dirty side if you browse right.
    • FriendsWithBenefits – smaller base but lots of real ppl nearby. I like how you can search by kink tags too.
    • Adult Friend Finder – still the most trusted place for kink chats, cams, and groups. Legit FetLife alternative if you want variety.
    • BeNaughty – good for teasing and roleplay texting, not deep BDSM convos but plenty of freaky energy.
    • Together2Night – lowkey site, but I met one sub from there who actually showed up (which is rare these days).
    • Fling – UI’s old but there’s a kinky crowd hiding there. Lots of voyeur couples.
    • Ashley Madison – more discreet than kinky, but if you’re into cheating fantasy stuff, that’s the spot.

    So yeah, those are my FetLife alternatives. Not all are perfect, but they’re sites similar to FetLife that still got life in them.

    #4665
    softrope
    Participant
    In reply to: kinkdad420 September 5, 2025
    Yo same! Been on there since 2019, used to meet subs easy, now it’s like LinkedIn with latex 😂 Anyway, I tested a bunch of websites like... Read more...

    Thanks @kinkdad420, I’ve been wondering if there’s any website like FetLife left that isn’t just noise. Might check out WannaHookup, heard someone say the kink filters there actually work.

    #4668
    TashaQTashaQ
    Participant

    I tried AdultFriend Finder years ago and it was wild 😅
    If you want open-minded ppl who aren’t scared of saying what they want, that’s it. It’s definitely similar to FetLife but more direct.

    #4670
    neoDom
    Participant

    Not gonna lie, FetLife’s still useful for learning stuff, but not for finding play partners. I’m on BeNaughty now, which is not pure BDSM but lots of ppl open to try. Way more responsive than the lurkers on FL!!

    #4672
    BratQueen
    Participant

    Someone told me Together2Night works for same-night hookups, thought it was BS but I tested it 😂😂😂 Met a switch girl same weekend. So yeah, other sites like FetLife exist, you just gotta filter through the fake doms first.

    #4675
    DerekMDerekM
    Participant

    Following this thread 👀 looking for apps like FetLife that don’t judge.

    #4677
    r3dbull
    Participant

    if you’re into older partners, toplocalsingles is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    not all kinky, but many milfs open to it. decent site like fetlife without the pretentious dom talk.

    #4679
    laceandsteel
    Participant

    I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over a year (don’t ask 😬) People there are surprisingly respectful. Way better than FetLife for private connections…

    #4682
    LilithxLilithx
    Participant

    Fling feels like a time machine, but I actually met a voyeur couple there who invited me to watch once. Didn’t expect that! Websites similar to FetLife don’t need to look shiny to work.

    #4685
    DrSubZeroDrSubZero
    Participant

    Can we talk about how FL became all politics and zero kink? Like, where did all the freaks go? I heard WannaHookup and OneNight Friend got better kink filters now, anyone confirm?

    #4687
    metalrose
    Participant

    Yeah I’m there. WannaHookup lets you set tags like “dom,” “sub,” “bondage,” etc. I’ve found more matches there in 2 weeks than a year on Fet. It’s def one of the best sites like FetLife rn.

    #4689
    CalebR
    Participant

    Gonna say this once! AdultFriend Finder never died!!! Forums, cam shows, poly ppl, fetishes… it’s all there.
    If anyone wants a website similar to FetLife but with actual activity, that’s the one.

    #4692
    Vera.LustVera.Lust
    Participant

    Been trying BeNaughty lately. Way less gatekeeping than FL. People just talk about what they like, no “kink test” bs. Feels similar to FetLife but friendlier.

    #4694
    LostSub
    Participant

    I’m still loyal to FetLife for journaling, but yeah, for real play I moved to Together2Night and TopLocalSingles. Less talk, more action….!

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