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So, FetLife’s cool for community stuff, but the hookups are dead lately. Feels like people just post memes and ghost 😒
Anyone know sites like FetLife that actually work for meeting kink-friendly ppl, not just endless DMs that go nowhere?
335Best AnswerYo same! Been on there since 2019, used to meet subs easy, now it’s like LinkedIn with latex 😂
Anyway, I tested a bunch of websites like FetLife, and only a few were worth it:- WannaHookup – surprisingly chill. Met a brat there into rope; convo started the same night. Feels better than FetLife if you’re into local flings.
- OneNight Friend – more hookup-vibe than community, but it’s got a dirty side if you browse right.
- FriendsWithBenefits – smaller base but lots of real ppl nearby. I like how you can search by kink tags too.
- Adult Friend Finder – still the most trusted place for kink chats, cams, and groups. Legit FetLife alternative if you want variety.
- BeNaughty – good for teasing and roleplay texting, not deep BDSM convos but plenty of freaky energy.
- Together2Night – lowkey site, but I met one sub from there who actually showed up (which is rare these days).
- Fling – UI’s old but there’s a kinky crowd hiding there. Lots of voyeur couples.
- Ashley Madison – more discreet than kinky, but if you’re into cheating fantasy stuff, that’s the spot.
So yeah, those are my FetLife alternatives. Not all are perfect, but they’re sites similar to FetLife that still got life in them.
475Yo same! Been on there since 2019, used to meet subs easy, now it’s like LinkedIn with latex 😂 Anyway, I tested a bunch of websites like... Read more...
Thanks @kinkdad420, I’ve been wondering if there’s any website like FetLife left that isn’t just noise. Might check out WannaHookup, heard someone say the kink filters there actually work.
22I tried AdultFriend Finder years ago and it was wild 😅
If you want open-minded ppl who aren’t scared of saying what they want, that’s it. It’s definitely similar to FetLife but more direct.30Not gonna lie, FetLife’s still useful for learning stuff, but not for finding play partners. I’m on BeNaughty now, which is not pure BDSM but lots of ppl open to try. Way more responsive than the lurkers on FL!!
10Someone told me Together2Night works for same-night hookups, thought it was BS but I tested it 😂😂😂 Met a switch girl same weekend. So yeah, other sites like FetLife exist, you just gotta filter through the fake doms first.
222if you’re into older partners, toplocalsingles is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
not all kinky, but many milfs open to it. decent site like fetlife without the pretentious dom talk.9I’ve been on Ashley Madison for over a year (don’t ask 😬) People there are surprisingly respectful. Way better than FetLife for private connections…
301Fling feels like a time machine, but I actually met a voyeur couple there who invited me to watch once. Didn’t expect that! Websites similar to FetLife don’t need to look shiny to work.
15Can we talk about how FL became all politics and zero kink? Like, where did all the freaks go? I heard WannaHookup and OneNight Friend got better kink filters now, anyone confirm?
25Yeah I’m there. WannaHookup lets you set tags like “dom,” “sub,” “bondage,” etc. I’ve found more matches there in 2 weeks than a year on Fet. It’s def one of the best sites like FetLife rn.
26Gonna say this once! AdultFriend Finder never died!!! Forums, cam shows, poly ppl, fetishes… it’s all there.
If anyone wants a website similar to FetLife but with actual activity, that’s the one.13Been trying BeNaughty lately. Way less gatekeeping than FL. People just talk about what they like, no “kink test” bs. Feels similar to FetLife but friendlier.
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