What are the best Japanese dating sites?

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  • #3461
    Cleverman128
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    I’ve always been attracted to Japanese women, but the chances to meet them in real life are very low. Since Japanese are a highly technical nation, I think many of them spend time on different sites and apps. What do you think about online dating in Japan in general? Are there Japanese dating sites you can trust?

    #3465
    lonelysoulLonelysoul
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    I moved to Japan 4 years ago, and I must admit that online dating is very popular with local guys. Many of them consider it wrong to approach girls in the streets, so they’re more likely to join a dating site and like their profiles rather than feel embarrassed irl.

    Speaking of Japanese dating sites for foreigners, many of them can’t boast many real members and a focus on seriousness. So I can recommend only those platforms that I visited personally – SakuraDate, LanaDate, and NaomiDate. My Asian friend recommended these and two more sites if I want something meaningful, and they didn’t disappoint me.

    SakuraDate is my best bet since it has an extensive user base with lots of members online. Naomidate attracted with lots of visuals in profiles, and Lanadate has simplified the search with lots of specifications.

    #3467
    AGENT007
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    Ladies, are you kidding? Men come to dating sites to get an easy prey for f*cking. There’s hardly any Japanese gentleman to make a kokuhaku to a girl he saw several times online. I think online dating is a big, nasty scam!!!

    #3469
    henryoffHenryOFF
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    In reply to: AGENT007 August 18, 2025
    Ladies, are you kidding? Men come to dating sites to get an easy prey for f*cking. There’s hardly any Japanese gentleman to make a kokuhaku to a... Read more...

    Nonsense! There’s hardly anyone who doesn’t use a Japanese dating service if attracted to girls of this nationality. As for me, I believe that online dating is much more convenient if you look for a match abroad. Unfortunately, there aren’t many free Japanese dating sites, but I didn’t hurry to pay for a platform before I ensured there were real users and girls I liked.

    #3471
    BadGUYforYOU
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    In reply to: Lonelysoul August 17, 2025
    I moved to Japan 4 years ago, and I must admit that online dating is very popular with local guys. Many of them consider it wrong to approach girls... Read more...

    Really think that these sites are good? I’ve checked dozens of platforms, and none of them is worth your time if it’s free. Moreover, too ideal profiles are only a magnet to attract men to a so-called best Japanese dating site. I believe that such websites were launched to cheat men and let girls lure their money! Nothing better(

    #3473
    lonelysoulLonelysoul
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    In reply to: BadGUYforYOU August 20, 2025
    Really think that these sites are good? I’ve checked dozens of platforms, and none of them is worth your time if it’s free. Moreover, too ideal... Read more...

    I can’t guarantee that everyone will succeed in dating on the top Japanese dating sites I’ve chosen for myself. And you know – they’re free only for ladies! Men should buy website virtual currency, so only those who have serious intentions usually join them.

    #3475
    glory_wisdomGlory_Wisdom
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    I was on the hunt for a Japanese dating app in America, and let me tell you it felt like trying to find sushi in a gas station. A rather confusing and full of questionable options experience. Then I came across Sakuradate. At first, I was more skeptical and expected it to be an example of other digital bots saying “hi dear.”

    To my surprise, Sakuradate worked like I couldn’t imagine! Real girls, actual conversations, and people who are not just looking for a one-night Netflix subscription. Most of them are excited about stability and meaningful connections. It’s like ordering a delivery service and getting a bonus free dessert and emotional support, too!

    #3477
    brave-nigelBrave Nigel
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    WTF! It’s stupid to think that Japanese dating website can substitute real-life experience! I was let down by not one site, and each time I gave them a shot, there was nothing except for frustration and disappointment! ABUNDANCE of scammers, fake profiles, and awful vibe–all you can find on the platforms that dare to call themselves the best Japanese dating sites.

    #3479
    HunterDude
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    In reply to: Glory_Wisdom August 22, 2025
    I was on the hunt for a Japanese dating app in America, and let me tell you it felt like trying to find sushi in a gas station. A rather confusing... Read more...

    Sounds like ad(( Hardly any Japanese dating apps can cause such high level of appreciation!

    #3481
    glory_wisdomGlory_Wisdom
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    In reply to: Brave Nigel August 23, 2025
    WTF! It’s stupid to think that Japanese dating website can substitute real-life experience! I was let down by not one site, and each time I gave... Read more...

    So what can you recommend? I’m not an expert in Japanese online dating, so I decided to share my own experience. It’s strange to accuse someone of lying if you haven’t checked that personally. I communicated with 4 people on SakuraDate, and 3 of them appeared to be real, interesting personalities without a hint of scam!

    #3483
    HunterDude
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    Wow, you’ve described this amazing experience as nothing better in your life! Oh, totally real people on an average dating platform tend to vanish after a couple of messages. And those who come to look for love get nothing except for a crash course in ghosting and bot recognition! Still rate it high? Online dating is a disaster in matchmaking!

    #3485
    delmyexDelMyEx
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    I had a negative dating experience IRL and started looking for a Japanese women dating site to meet a man I had always dreamt about. My ex-boyfriend was American, and he appeared to be a real asshead! I wanted to meet a European and used Naomidate at the advice of my friend. You know, many men treat ladies like meat there, but I didn’t lose hope of meeting the right person, and I was lucky. I think that everyone who wants to find a soulmate can do that, and even a website can be suitable for that!

    #3487
    ForeverNotDating
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    If you want to learn more about the way people behave on Japanese dating services, watch series like “Love is Blind: Japan” or “Offline Love.” They show modern dating dynamics and debunk myths that exist worldwide.
    I’m not a fan of online dating, of course, but I think that we’re highly dependent on tech nowadays, and you can’t avoid that in romantic relationships, too.

    #3489
    Cutie128
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    To tell the truth, I’ve always known that not everyone approves of online dating, but I didn’t expect to see so many negative messages on this topic. I’m sincerely grateful to everyone who shared their online dating experience and suggested examples of what Japanese dating site to check. Hopefully, it will be positive. As soon as I get some impressions, no doubt I’ll share them with you! Thanks!

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