I think dating sites for seniors are more about friendship than hookups. Met a lady in Seattle, we garden together now. Romance? Maybe, but who cares, it’s company.
My mom is 64. She’s on a couple of free sites, cause she would never waste money on credits, but I help her filter. Rule: if a guy’s first message is “hello dear,” block. If he talks grandkids, give him a chance.
After the divorce, I was skeptical. But one of those sites hooked me up with a widowed teacher. We go on road trips now. Never thought online could beat bar meetups.