Being A Mother Is Not An Excuse To Let Yourself Go

Today marks exactly 8 weeks (2 months) since Charo was born and I am celebrating because I feel healthy, happy and blessed. Yesterday my 8 year old son Kunashe who is my photographer, took some pictures of me, and some of my followers asked me what my beauty secrets where. Beauty is a natural gift, … Continue reading Being A Mother Is Not An Excuse To Let Yourself Go

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How To Get Your Boaz: If You Are A Black Single Mother

Research shows that 75% of black children are raised by black single mothers. Meaning most black women are single mothers. How tragic. I refused this portion and got my Boaz. I am always asked how I got my Boaz against such odds. Well, this is how you get your Boaz. It always happens exactly like … Continue reading How To Get Your Boaz: If You Are A Black Single Mother

Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

Last week I wrote an article about the rampant abuse of daughters-in-law by their in-laws in Zimbabwe, other African countries as well as Asian countries. Most of my readers responded by highlighting that the abuse was mainly fuelled by the practice of Lobola especially in Zimbabwean culture.  The contributions from my readers were quite thought-provoking for … Continue reading Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

When Mothers-In-Law Should Be Banned From Seeing Their Grandchildren

I was inspired to write this article after following a well publicised story for the last couple of weeks about famous British-Pakistani Boxer Amir Khan whose wife Faryal Makhdoom Khan has taken to social media accusing her in-laws of abusing her.  On Christmas Day, Amir Khan's sister accused Faryal of banning her parents/family from seeing … Continue reading When Mothers-In-Law Should Be Banned From Seeing Their Grandchildren

If I Was Theresa May I Would Build A Great Wall In Britain

If only I was Theresa May. If I was Theresa May, Britain would never be the same again. If only just for a day, I could be the most powerful woman in Britain, I would be like Donald Trump. I would build a great wall against the prophets of Africa who come to United Kingdom … Continue reading If I Was Theresa May I Would Build A Great Wall In Britain

Why Independent Black Women Will Always Be Single

My dear black sisters, you were never created to be Independent. It's against nature. Yes it's good to be a strong woman, but strong doesn't mean independent. Beyonce will sing for you 'Independent Woman', but she is not an independent woman herself. She needs JayZ. To be precise, she needs a strong black man next to her. … Continue reading Why Independent Black Women Will Always Be Single

Aisha Buhari: The Modern Day Queen Vashti

The day I read on BBC News about Nigerian First Lady Aisha Buhari criticizing her husband in public, my first thought was the the book of Esther in the bible, particularly Queen Vashti. Whist in an interview to BBC, Aisha threatened that she would not back her husband the president in the next election unless he … Continue reading Aisha Buhari: The Modern Day Queen Vashti

Zimbabweans Owe Maureen Makusha An Apology

Over the past week I watched Zimbabweans on social media bully, abuse, insult and mock a woman called Maureen Makusha whose pictures went viral after she attended millionaire Genius Kadungure's all white party in a very revealing white dress. She was called a whore, trashy, mentally ill and other vulgar words that I can not … Continue reading Zimbabweans Owe Maureen Makusha An Apology

Pregnant And Alone

The bible says we should give thanks to God and testify of His good deeds. The bible also says we go through trials so we can encourage others one day.  As my baby is about to turn two, I am compelled to share my journey of one of the most painful times of my life, when … Continue reading Pregnant And Alone

8 Reasons Why Women Are Weaker Than Men

Its International Women’s Month this month. Its international Women’s Day today on March 8. This month, today especially is all about empowering and motivating women. I myself am a women rights activist having survived horrendous life threatening domestic and religious abuses.