How To Get Your Boaz: If You Are A Black Single Mother

Research shows that 75% of black children are raised by black single mothers. Meaning most black women are single mothers. How tragic. I refused this portion and got my Boaz. I am always asked how I got my Boaz against such odds. Well, this is how you get your Boaz. It always happens exactly like … Continue reading How To Get Your Boaz: If You Are A Black Single Mother

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Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

Last week I wrote an article about the rampant abuse of daughters-in-law by their in-laws in Zimbabwe, other African countries as well as Asian countries. Most of my readers responded by highlighting that the abuse was mainly fuelled by the practice of Lobola especially in Zimbabwean culture.  The contributions from my readers were quite thought-provoking for … Continue reading Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

I Am With Cheryl Tweedy, Younger Men Are The Best Catch

I grew up thinking there was something morally wrong with a woman being with a man younger than her. The society  I grew up in shunned the whole concept.  I could never fathom why a normal man would find a woman 10 years his senior attractive. My mind told me that the woman would be … Continue reading I Am With Cheryl Tweedy, Younger Men Are The Best Catch

Pregnant And Alone

The bible says we should give thanks to God and testify of His good deeds. The bible also says we go through trials so we can encourage others one day.  As my baby is about to turn two, I am compelled to share my journey of one of the most painful times of my life, when … Continue reading Pregnant And Alone

10 Reasons why God allows Women to be divorced

By Jean Gasho Divorce is a very sensitive topic, especially among believers. The church hardly speaks about it. Half the time there is a lot of stigma and blame on the divorced woman. I found myself in the predicament of divorce without any fore warning. I had always been taught that the only biblical grounds … Continue reading 10 Reasons why God allows Women to be divorced

10 Reasons Why Single Mothers Make The Best Wives

In an ideal world a man is supposed to have a career, be established financially, meet the woman of his dreams, preferably a young virgin who has never been touched or kissed, propose to her, have a beautiful white wedding, buy a nice little house of their own, start making beautiful babies, and live happily ever after. That just about rounds up the model of marriage in a perfect world. But unfortunately we do not live in a perfect world, we live in a world that is literally upside down.