Outnumbered, What It Feels Like To Be A Plural Wife…

Its weird that all day today I was listening to Dermot Kennedy's Outnumbered. I love music which moves me, I love a good cry to a good song, that's the purpose of music. The words came to life tonight. God always does that to me, He gives me songs which literally plays out one way … Continue reading Outnumbered, What It Feels Like To Be A Plural Wife…

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Applications To Be Considered To Be My Husband’s Third Wife And PA Now Open

Since I wrote about my Boaz's desire for a PA who will also be his third wife, a few women have written expressing interest to become my husband's PA. In this journey we believe that it is God who is leading us, so because of the level of interest, we thought it would be better … Continue reading Applications To Be Considered To Be My Husband’s Third Wife And PA Now Open

5 Reasons Why “Side Chicks” Are Happier And More Blessed Than Main Wives

In the black community, most well to do black men, even the middle class ones, when they do a little well in life, they feel like they need more women, or at least another woman. These women are what we call side chicks.  These black women are happy to be second best to men, like … Continue reading 5 Reasons Why “Side Chicks” Are Happier And More Blessed Than Main Wives

Jean I Am So Sorry, You Are Indeed A Happily Married Woman: Nomazulu Thata

It's truly humbling to get a heartfelt apology from Women Rights Activist Nomazula Thata over her article about me, where she said I was in an abusive marriage and I need to leave my husband because of polygamy. When I write, I always hope that I am able to challenge and change perceptions especially that … Continue reading Jean I Am So Sorry, You Are Indeed A Happily Married Woman: Nomazulu Thata

Jean, Come Back Home To Zimbabwe and Leave Your Ghanaian Husband, My Response To Activist Nomazulu Thata

Dear Nomazulu Thata I recently read an article in Bulawayo News 24 where you were saying I am in an abusive marriage to my Ghanaian husband and I should leave my marriage and come back to Zimbabwe. As an Activist and Politician I have always admired, I was greatly disappointed that as an elder, you … Continue reading Jean, Come Back Home To Zimbabwe and Leave Your Ghanaian Husband, My Response To Activist Nomazulu Thata

The Struggles Of Co-Wives, Fighting To Heal The King From ‘Man Flu’

So Boaz been feeling quite under the weather lately, flues and colds in winter are never kind to him, he's never got used to British weather, I guess no can really.  Even 5 years ago when I met him, he was battling a cold and sore throat as he performed on stage. Every winter, he … Continue reading The Struggles Of Co-Wives, Fighting To Heal The King From ‘Man Flu’

So A Third Wife Will Extend My Husband’s Empire, And He Will Give Me The Highest Honor

 One thing I am so happy about is that since I have had my handmaid, I have so much time to just sit on my laptop writing. I am just so happy that finally after years of being a busy stay at home mother, I now have all the time in the world to focus … Continue reading So A Third Wife Will Extend My Husband’s Empire, And He Will Give Me The Highest Honor

My First Polygamy Challenge, So My Handmaid Rebelled

Okay I almost didn't write this blog. But this journey of polygamy has been about honesty and the reality of what it means to live this lifestyle. I believe the 400 year return is about Israel returning back to innocence, and that includes the life of patriarchy. I have had a lot of people ask … Continue reading My First Polygamy Challenge, So My Handmaid Rebelled

Dear Mary-Tamar, How Do You Cope With Sharing Your Man?

Since I went public with my Boaz's journey of looking for a second wife, I have had so many questions sent to me by email or inbox from women who are living secretly in polygamy but are not able to come out in public in fear of persecution from Christians. I find it interesting how … Continue reading Dear Mary-Tamar, How Do You Cope With Sharing Your Man?

The God Of Israel Has Never Had A Problem With Polygamy

Okay, so I have been getting comments on my blog from "Christians" who believe that polygamy is a sin. They also have their own interpretation of the scripture I used, Isaiah 4:1 – “Seven women shall take hold of one man saying we will eat our own food, we will buy own clothes, only what we … Continue reading The God Of Israel Has Never Had A Problem With Polygamy