No Mummy, I Was Always Your Little Girl, Not The Other Woman

As I stand today, now one of the most hated women in Zimbabwe, a figure of ridicule, scorn and mockery, which is being cruelly hurled at me along with the cultural and religious threats which come with it.  Some are saying I will die a painful death because I have done an abomination of speaking … Continue reading No Mummy, I Was Always Your Little Girl, Not The Other Woman

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Why Zimbabwe Breeds A Culture Of Girl Child Abuse

According to Zimbabwe, or rather its culture, I was abused by way too many people. I was abused by my previous pastor, the church community, my ex-husband, my ex-sisters in law, my ex-mother in law, and now recently I wrote about the pain of my childhood in the hands of my mother. Zimbabwe as a … Continue reading Why Zimbabwe Breeds A Culture Of Girl Child Abuse

Dear Bren Mupa, My Story Is Mine To Tell, Not Yours To Silence

You were recently nominated for a Zimbabwe Achievers Award, Female Personality. It's in my understanding that you stand for women and girls of Zimbabwe, especially their rights, though I may be wrong. I remember not long ago, you wrote about me on your Facebook page, attacking me and telling me that abuse is personal, and no … Continue reading Dear Bren Mupa, My Story Is Mine To Tell, Not Yours To Silence

Why I am no longer Zimbabwean…

I have finally left Zimbabwe, its been a long journey, but like how Ruth left Moab, I did it, and will never look back. As a writer, I have not only left the country physically, but I have left the country emotionally too. During my time off Facebook, this was something I had to reflect on. … Continue reading Why I am no longer Zimbabwean…

I will never forgive a person who is not sorry.

Its okay not to forgive. There I have said it. Holier than thou Christians shoot me all you want. After my open letter to my evil ex-mother in law Febbie two weeks ago, I had a lot of people write to me, some were telling me I had to forgive her so I can be … Continue reading I will never forgive a person who is not sorry.

My Open Letter To Febbie

Dear Febbie Yesterday I was made aware of a video going viral on social media about a man called Lameck. He gate-crashed a funeral of a woman who had been a mother in law to his daughter. He stopped the whole funeral and chose to speak ill of the dead, declaring boldly that the dead … Continue reading My Open Letter To Febbie

Micheal, My Gay Angel

I believe Christians are the most judgemental hypocrites on earth, especially when it comes to sexuality. They will look at a person who is gay with disgust and automatically condemn them to hell. Whilst they condemn the gays, they will fail to do the basic thing that is taught by the bible. Thou shalt love … Continue reading Micheal, My Gay Angel

Being A Mother Is Not An Excuse To Let Yourself Go

Today marks exactly 8 weeks (2 months) since Charo was born and I am celebrating because I feel healthy, happy and blessed. Yesterday my 8 year old son Kunashe who is my photographer, took some pictures of me, and some of my followers asked me what my beauty secrets where. Beauty is a natural gift, … Continue reading Being A Mother Is Not An Excuse To Let Yourself Go