Dear Black People, GET OUT Of The White Jesus System

I dare every black person to go and watch the racially charged horror movie GET OUT. It was written and directed by Jordan Peele, who has made history by being the first black writer/director to create a debut feature film that's earned more than 100 million at the box office. I hate horror films, but this … Continue reading Dear Black People, GET OUT Of The White Jesus System

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I Hate Spiritual Daddies And Would Love To See Them Melt Like Snails

I believe honesty is a gift, and I intend on using mine faithfully, especially when I'm holding the pen. God knows I have a lot of love in me, sometimes too much for my own good, but I have also learned to hate, and it's an expression I am not afraid to use, especially when … Continue reading I Hate Spiritual Daddies And Would Love To See Them Melt Like Snails

One Lovely Blog Award

I was nominated for the One Lovely Blog Award by health blogger Monique.  It was nice to get a recognition from another great blogger, it came as a lovely surprise. If you love natural hair, health, and fitness, family, nerd and geek entertainment, Monique's blog is a great place to be. Writing this blog has been like … Continue reading One Lovely Blog Award

Returning To The Innocence Of Breastfeeding

As this month celebrates International Womens Day, I will be writing articles that encourage women to break barriers and stigmas about motherhood in the 21st Century. I am currently celebrating the birth of my 5th baby Charo, and I personally feel there is nothing more rewarding to a woman than being a mother. I totally … Continue reading Returning To The Innocence Of Breastfeeding

Daughter Of An Unloving Mother

Today we had a party in our house. My husband, the children and I danced and celebrated the love we all share. We had the music so loud, we did not care about the neighbors. If there is anything Nino brought into my life, he came to understand me and bring out the best in … Continue reading Daughter Of An Unloving Mother

CHARO: Our New-Born Baby Is Here!

Nino and I welcomed our little Princess Charo on the 5th of February 2017. She is truly adorable and a picture of completion. Her name means 'a crown of roses'. The rose is the expression of romantic love, promise, hope and new beginnings. That is exactly what Charo means to me and Nino. The journey … Continue reading CHARO: Our New-Born Baby Is Here!

Why I Blame The Black Man For Black People’s Self-Hate

When I was young, growing up in Africa in a country where lighter skinned women are the epitome of beauty,  I once asked a woman whom I looked up to why women with light skin were considered more beautiful than women with dark skin. Her answer was straightforward, "Because men like women with lighter skin, … Continue reading Why I Blame The Black Man For Black People’s Self-Hate

Yes, Because Of Facebook Personality Mike Tashaya, I Have Decided To Leave Facebook

I have read enough stories of teenagers committing suicide after being bullied on Facebook I have seen women being called names on Facebook that has affected their self-esteem for the rest of their lives. Over the past week, for the first time, I can say I have become a victim of Facebook bullying by a Zimbabwean Facebook Personality called … Continue reading Yes, Because Of Facebook Personality Mike Tashaya, I Have Decided To Leave Facebook

Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

Last week I wrote an article about the rampant abuse of daughters-in-law by their in-laws in Zimbabwe, other African countries as well as Asian countries. Most of my readers responded by highlighting that the abuse was mainly fuelled by the practice of Lobola especially in Zimbabwean culture.  The contributions from my readers were quite thought-provoking for … Continue reading Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

My Open Letter To Zimbaweans

As a blogger I have written about my abuse journey in the hands of my fellow Zimbabweans, (false prophet, church members, online community). It has been a lot to do with the oppressive Zimbabwean culture. So when I see you Zimbabweans "mourning" that Mugabe is evil and has robbed you, sadly I can not resonate. … Continue reading My Open Letter To Zimbaweans