How Being A God-Damned Christian Ruined My Life, Part 1

When I became a born again Christian in 2008, I became those holier than thou Christians who would go for a day with the goal of not "sinning". I strived on living a holy perfect life according to the Christian doctrine. I strived on living an honest life, and would go to great length to … Continue reading How Being A God-Damned Christian Ruined My Life, Part 1

Where Is Your Husband’s Second Wife, Shulamite, My Readers Ask Me, As Dr Umar Johnson Copies My King In Quest For Polygamy

Yesterday a number of my readers asked me, Mary-Tamar, where is the Shulamite, your husband's second wife? It seems that is all my readers, especially on Facebook, wants to know, they have been asking me this question for months. They want to know what's happening with Shulamite especially, and also Hagar. Well today I could … Continue reading Where Is Your Husband’s Second Wife, Shulamite, My Readers Ask Me, As Dr Umar Johnson Copies My King In Quest For Polygamy

Blended Family Series: Why My Children Call My Husband By His First Name

I've done a number of articles on Blended Families. Recently one of my Facebook followers asked me why my children do not call my husband Daddy after I had posted some pictures on Father's Day. On Father's Day, Nino blessed the children with ten pounds notes each to buy themselves treats, and after a while, … Continue reading Blended Family Series: Why My Children Call My Husband By His First Name

Why Zimbabwean Men Should Not Pay Lobola For Non Virgins

A few weeks ago there was a misunderstanding on Zimbabwe social media about lobola, the women thought that the Government had ruled that lobola had been banished, prompting a wild panic among the Zimbabwean women. The women of Zimbabwe were crying that they cannot be married "for free", whatever that means. The craziest thing about … Continue reading Why Zimbabwean Men Should Not Pay Lobola For Non Virgins

Jesus’ Colour Matters, But Only To The Lost Tribes Of Israel

A leading figure in the Black Lives Matter movement Shaun King wants the United States, and most of the western world, to take down the statues of a white Jesus Christ for the purpose of racial justice. His argument is that Christ was not a white man but a black man, so all these white … Continue reading Jesus’ Colour Matters, But Only To The Lost Tribes Of Israel

Why I Am Sad That Lockdown Is Coming To An End

Lock-down or self isolation caused a lot of people to commit suicide, the latest being playboy multi-millionaire Steve Being who killed himself yesterday after becoming depressed because of self-isolation. The global lock-down was a massive sudden change to our lifestyles, a lot of people out there love partying, socializing and being around people, so I … Continue reading Why I Am Sad That Lockdown Is Coming To An End

Unless Her Afro Is Tied Into A Silky Neat Bun, Your Daughter Can’t Enroll In Our Ballet school

Today Alexandra Burke spoke out about her experiences of racism when she entered the X-Factor competition a few years ago, she was told she had to have a straight weave and not wear her hair natural to appeal to the wider white audience.  The comments in the mainstream media about Alexandra speaking out are indeed … Continue reading Unless Her Afro Is Tied Into A Silky Neat Bun, Your Daughter Can’t Enroll In Our Ballet school

Why Gilbert Arenas Was Right To Say He Doesn’t Find Lupita “Cute”

So Black American former NBA basketball player Gilbert Arenas attacked Lupita Nyong'o over her beauty and colour of skin back in 2017.  Since the recent rise of the Black Lives Matter movement, the athlete has since made an open and public apology to the Wakanda actress, admitting he was an idiot for saying what he … Continue reading Why Gilbert Arenas Was Right To Say He Doesn’t Find Lupita “Cute”

My Ashanti King Said No To Zimbabwe Lobola, Now The Government Has Ended The Necessity Of The Barbaric Ritual

One of the reasons I love being a writer is because the things I write about always come to pass one way or another. So today Zimbabwe has announced that it's introduced a new lobola law which does not require the traditional bride price to be paid before a marriage can be solemnized. The new lobola … Continue reading My Ashanti King Said No To Zimbabwe Lobola, Now The Government Has Ended The Necessity Of The Barbaric Ritual

Tyler Perry’s Acrimony: A Hard Lesson For Black Women

I finally watched Tyler Perry's most talked-about psychological thriller Acrimony. This is definitely the best film of Tyler Perry that I have ever watched, and Taraji P Henson who plays Melinda did so much justice to the script. After reading reviews about how this bad ungrateful black man betrayed his loving loyal black wife, I … Continue reading Tyler Perry’s Acrimony: A Hard Lesson For Black Women