Why I Blame The Black Man For Black People’s Self-Hate

When I was young, growing up in Africa in a country where lighter skinned women are the epitome of beauty,  I once asked a woman whom I looked up to why women with light skin were considered more beautiful than women with dark skin. Her answer was straightforward, "Because men like women with lighter skin, … Continue reading Why I Blame The Black Man For Black People’s Self-Hate

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Yes, Because Of Facebook Personality Mike Tashaya, I Have Decided To Leave Facebook

I have read enough stories of teenagers committing suicide after being bullied on Facebook I have seen women being called names on Facebook that has affected their self-esteem for the rest of their lives. Over the past week, for the first time, I can say I have become a victim of Facebook bullying by a Zimbabwean Facebook Personality called … Continue reading Yes, Because Of Facebook Personality Mike Tashaya, I Have Decided To Leave Facebook

Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

Last week I wrote an article about the rampant abuse of daughters-in-law by their in-laws in Zimbabwe, other African countries as well as Asian countries. Most of my readers responded by highlighting that the abuse was mainly fuelled by the practice of Lobola especially in Zimbabwean culture.  The contributions from my readers were quite thought-provoking for … Continue reading Why Bride Price/Lobola Should Be Abolished: The Root Of Wife Abuse In Africa

My Open Letter To Zimbaweans

As a blogger I have written about my abuse journey in the hands of my fellow Zimbabweans, (false prophet, church members, online community). It has been a lot to do with the oppressive Zimbabwean culture. So when I see you Zimbabweans "mourning" that Mugabe is evil and has robbed you, sadly I can not resonate. … Continue reading My Open Letter To Zimbaweans

Why Are Black People Obsessed With The Bible That Was Used To Enslave Them?

When I became a born-again Christian in 2008, I started studying the bible word for word. I would spend hours a day reading all commentaries for all the verses I studied. The more I studied the bible the more I realized that most of the Christians around me did not believe everything that was in … Continue reading Why Are Black People Obsessed With The Bible That Was Used To Enslave Them?